Dating younger men 4 years
If those words made you cringe, I’m sorry, but I’m just trying to be as direct as possible. Any way you want to look at it, complications such as down syndrome and miscarriages in pregnancy rise with age.So it makes perfect sense that men are driven to younger women who have the lowest risk factors. Since they were teenagers, many women have idolized older men.Those Hollywood actors who have options almost always choose young women.And unfortunately, if they’re leaving their wife, it’s almost always for a younger woman.And they generally have more self-confidence as they know who they are. — When it comes to this subject, older men are painted as shallow horndogs manipulating younger women. But what about all the couples who fall into this category (including my parents) who are in love or married for decades? Are you saying these women are coerced and manipulated into being with these men?Combine women’s desire for a strong, mature man and men’s desire for a young, healthy woman to bear children and it all makes sense. Attraction is an emotion that we can’t help but feel. These women are willingly and happily choosing these men.
That in itself may be the most disempowering, anti-feminist view I can think of.Often, a younger guy and an older woman would “decide” upfront that their relationship will be casual, and that they should not expect any commitment from each other, because they know that the end of that relationship is inevitable because of the seemingly irreconcilable age difference.Ironically however, as their relationship is not clouded by fears and complications of commitment, long-term relationships and related issues.So I find it hilarious when I see women hate on older men for chasing younger girls when often find older men sexy. It’s easy to critique others for their desires but when we look at ourselves, we suddenly get a free pass. And so many women are fed up dealing with “immature boys” and prefer to date older guys. Did you consciously choose to like those qualities throughout your life? That’s why I think calling someone shallow for their physical preferences is ignorant.Those guys tend to earn better wages and therefore be better providers. They’re more cultured and have more world experience. And thinking young women are sexy falls into that category — you have nothing to be ashamed of.