Dating nigerian scammers
They say all the things a woman wants to hear- even send gifts of flowers, chocolates and champagne. But sadly women are falling for this scam and losing thousands of dollars in the process.
"Redden" even went so far as to try to influence what he thought was Krystene's daughter- telling the child her mother needed to send him money to help is own daughter in a Nigerian hospital. When Krystene finally called him on the scam- he was evasive, defiant, and insistant that she had the wrong idea. If you're communicating online with a man who wants a relationship, don't give out any personal information like your address, financial information or personal information about your family.
Then finally, something she was not expecting- a threat. Wait for several months, at least to find out more about them.
If they start asking for money- or for you to send them packages to Nigeria for any reason- stop talking immediately. Paul Hallenbeck was deployed to Afghanistan when he met a woman online. He had been mobilized individually, away from his unit, and tasked to deploy with the 41st Brigade Combat Team from Oregon.
“I was on a [forward operating base] most of the time, so any contact with humans helped, so I kind of got milked out of that.” Hallenbeck, who was deployed from June 2006 to June 2007 in Uruzgan province in south-central Afghanistan, declined to disclose how much money he had lost — but said it was far less than the woman who fell for a photo of him.
In an ironic twist of events — and as evidence that online scam artists are thriving — Hallenbeck’s name and photo were used to scam a 59-year-old British woman out of thousands of dollars.
“It is a violation, but it’s not like being broken into.” The photo of Hallenbeck that was used to fool the British woman came from an article in “The Main Effort,” the monthly newsletter of the 205th Regional Security Assistance Command.
Hallenbeck, a former Marine who later joined the Army National Guard, said he found out about the scam involving the British woman only when he was contacted by an Army public affairs officer, who was informed by Army Times.
He is not the only service member whose name and photo were used to fool women into sending money to con artists. Richard Bartch had his photos lifted from a family morale Web site by a con artist who then asked women to send money to help pay for the shipment of his luggage as he made his way home from Iraq.
His job had him training the Afghan army, and he was often outside the wire on dangerous missions.
The online conversations with this woman, who said she was from Nigeria, were comforting, a distraction from combat.